CNN has posted an article this week concerning a Missouri Pastor's efforts to stamp out complaining in his congregation. His efforts have drawn national attention as the result of giving away purple wrist bands. These elastic bands are meant to serve as a personal reminder to quit complaining.
A similar article about this news item has appeared in our local paper this morning.
The CNN article contains some interesting comments concerning complaining and our postmodern world:
KANSAS CITY, Missouri (AP) -- The Rev. Will Bowen tries not to complain. He wants everyone else to stop carping, too -- all 6 billion of us on the planet.
And his message, first preached in a sermon at his small suburban church, has caught on -- even though some critics note complaining serves an important function.
Last July, Bowen challenged worshippers at Christ Church Unity to quit complaining as a way to bring more prosperity into their lives. The congregation is part of the Association of Unity Churches, which offers what it calls "practical Christianity" -- a way of life leading to health, prosperity, happiness and peace of mind.
"When you're focusing your attention on what's wrong or complaining, you're going to get more of what you're complaining about," Bowen says.
Positive thinking is not a new concept, but Bowen's spin came with a contemporary twist: the silicone bracelet. At the July sermon, Bowen handed out about 250 purple bracelets he wanted his congregants to use to remind themselves to stop complaining, criticizing or gossiping. Sarcasm was another no-no.
He challenged them to refrain from complaining for 21 days because, he said, that is how long it takes to break habits. Whenever they found themselves failing they were to switch the bracelet to the other wrist and start over.
"Complaining draws all of its essence from negativity," the 47-year-old Bowen says. "When you complain, you do it typically to attract attention or sympathy. It's you saying, 'There's something wrong with me.'
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I will be one of the first to support the effort to help stop complaining. I believe that we complain too much in our daily lives. Since reading this article earlier this week, I have been listening carefully to the conversations that I encounter during the day. I was amazed as to the amount of complaining that I heard in personal conversations on the phone and in person. On a personal level - it has been instructive (and humbling) to me as to the times I began to complain.
I do have some reservations with Bowen's approach that 'complaint-free' life will lead to health, prosperity, happiness and peace of mind. It makes sense that we would have a peace in our mind if we were to consider and watch our words. We would not have to worry about offending or causing hurt to others.
But I take issue with assertion that it will lead to health and prosperity. It seems that everyone is looking for the magic bullet that will lead to wealth and happiness.
Why is it that it's not good enough for us to stop doing (or continue doing) something because it is simply the right thing to do?
In asking this question, I am not complaining. I am just asking.