Please excuse me today while I get a bit personal...
I was sad to read about the death of one of my favorite musicians, Dan Fogelberg . He died yesterday after a difficult struggle with prostate cancer.
His music provided much of the soundtrack of my life - especially during my time at college. I remember listening to his albums Souvenirs, The Innocent Age, and Windows and Walls on my cassette player while studying late at night. Tina and I have seen him play live a couple of times. He was a fine songwriter, an excellent musician, and an outstanding performer.
I find it extremely sobering and shocking that he was only 56 years old.
Dan was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2004. He posted the following note (he called it a sermon!) on his website after his diagnosis.
I cannot encourage you strongly enough to get a DRE (Digital Rectal Exam) and a PSA (Prostate Specific Antigen) test EVERY YEAR.
The medical community suggests this for men over 50, but men with a family history of prostate cancer should start getting tested at age 40.
The PSA test is a simple blood test...it only takes a minute or two. The DRE, okay, every man squirms at the thought of this exam, but hey, it too takes only a minute or two, and IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE.
Prostate cancer can be very slow growing or very aggressive, but detected early while it is still confined to the prostate gland, it can usually be treated and cured successfully.
Once it spreads beyond the prostate it is called Advanced Prostate Cancer (PCa). At this point it becomes imminently more life threatening and harder to treat. Do yourself and your loved ones a huge favor and GET CHECKED REGULARLY. I promise you, you DON’T want to go through what I’m going through if you can avoid it.
Fogelberg's cancer was considered stage 3 when he was tested. The news posted on his website about his death yesterday morning mentioned that he died peacefully with his wife Jean at his side.
I recall that I was tested after reading the note concerning his diagnosis in 2004. And it was not a big deal but I was extremely glad that I did it. And to the men who may be reading this - and I can't stress this point enough - please take the time to consider his advice.
I apologize in advance to those who may find this a bit too personal. But I thought that this was something that was important to share today.